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Introducing family law arbitration…

You may have noticed a recent post I wrote concerning the prospect of arbitration in family law disputes and the potential benefits it may bring. I’m now delighted to announce that a family law arbitration scheme has launched in England under the Institute of Family Law Arbitrators. From today, qualified arbitrators can now decide a range of financial family law issues with legally binding outcomes or ‘awards’.

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Seven days in Israel and a lesson in planning ahead: will life ever turn out as we expect?

The best laid plans often go awry as my last few weeks have certainly proved. Our intention was to take a quick seven-day break in Israel before my niece, Rebecca’s baby was born. We would be home in time to take care of my parents, and my sister could safely go to London to look after her daughter and her new arrival, which was due at the end of this month. However, the new baby had other ideas and arrived two weeks early. And so we set off for our holiday apologetically, our carefully considered plans in disarray. But such is life; what you hope will happen doesn't always turn out the way you wanted it to.

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Religious marriages: what constitutes a valid marriage in England? By guest blogger Laura Guillon

Many people choose a religious ceremony when getting married. More often than not these comply with the requirements detailed in my previous post, but there are some cases in which not all the requirements are complied with and the court must decide whether there is a valid marriage.

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When is a marriage not a marriage? By guest blogger Laura Guillon

Getting married is meant to be an exciting, romantic time and no one wants to think about what would happen if it all goes wrong. But how would you feel if your marriage broke down and you found out that you had never been legally married in England in the first place?

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The best laid plans…and two birthdays to remember

For some time now my sister has been worrying about how she is going to manage when her daughter, Rebecca, gives birth to her first baby. A London resident, Rebecca is due at the end of this month and, understandably, my sister wants to be there and help as much as possible. Known to our family as “Aunty Doo Doo”, my sister already has a lot on her plate. She has been caring for our parents at her home in Yorkshire since my mum became seriously ill last autumn. Along with mum's devoted carer Ruby, my brother-in-law and the two dogs, it makes for a full household!

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What role for the law? The government’s response to the Family Justice Review

The Government Response to the Family Justice Review, which was led by accountant David Norgrove and an almost exclusively child-focused committee, was published this week. Most of the report’s recommendations were, as expected, accepted.

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Back to basics: how I think we can help our stretched courts

I recently posted on the dire situation facing the judiciary, noting the comments made by District Judge Nicholas Crichton about our courts being stacked out with Litigants in Person (LiP), and the detrimental effect it is having

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Why I think grandparents’ legal rights are fit for purpose by guest blogger David Milburn

Tomorrow I will be appearing on the This Morning alongside Gloria Hunniford and another guest to discuss the difficult subject of access to grandchildren following the split of their parents. I was the legal contributor to Gloria’s book Glorious Grandparenting and I have posted on this subject on numerous occasions. In the book I do advocate the benefits of mediation in these circumstances.

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Q&A on finances and divorce with Marilyn Stowe – Wednesday February 8th

On Wednesday 8th February I will be answering readers’ questions in real-time from 2pm to 4pm in our forums. If you have a general question concerning the financial implications of divorce that you would like answering, then please post it over the coming week, or during Wednesday afternoon. I won't give you detailed advice as to what you should specifically settle for, or how to resolve your dispute with the CSA, because only a lawyer retained by you can provide such a level of professional support. But my advice is given entirely free of charge and without liability.

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HuffPost Divorce: The Top 10 Stereotypical Marriage Wreckers

I was recently invited to contribute to HuffPost Divorce, where you can now find a slideshow featuring my Top 10 Stereotypical Marriage Wreckers. Some appear to have struck a nerve with readers.

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Holocaust Memorial Day: why we must all protect our culture of tolerance

Andrew Williams, the Chief Executive of Stowe Family Law is a proud Yorkshireman and Englishman. Blunt, straightforward and to the point, he has been a prime force in the development of the firm since he joined in 2004. A politician to boot, he was the youngest ever mayor of the City of Ripon.

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Marathon woman (From Solicitors Journal)

Many would see it as a natural business instinct to welcome the decline or demise of a competitor. For me, there is little sadder news than hearing about a firm closing, downsizing or being forced to merge. This month has been characterised by such announcements, some particularly close to home which came as a shock.

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The costs risk conundrum: how a change in the law has congested courts

I read with great interest a post by my colleague, John Bolch of Family Lore, and its reference to the phrase “blood on the court carpet”. It was drawn from a comment originally made by District Judge Nicholas Crichton, who sits in Inner London

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Making sense of child maintenance. By guest blogger Anna Pietrowski of charity Gingerbread

Given the concerns of many in relation to Child Support I am delighted to publish a guest post by Anna Pietrowski of Gingerbread, a long-established charity that supports single parent families.

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Divorce, joint tenancy and how to prepare for the unexpected

A new case has come to light that is important for anyone going through family separation who owns a property jointly with their partner– as well as the practitioners advising them. What follows is a more complicated post than usual and I’ve done my best to simplify it. For all those unacquainted with Section 36 Law of Property Act 1925 may I first suggest reading my initial post on this subject, which looked at severance of joint tenancy and will help you to better understand the case I am about to cover.

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Marilyn Stowe is the senior partner in Stowe Family Law, which has offices in Yorkshire, Cheshire and London. With more than 25 years’ experience handling divorce cases and family law proceedings she is regarded as one of the most formidable and sought after divorce lawyers in the UK.

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I write for the benefit of those who are experiencing family breakdown and for fellow family law professionals. Please note that all persons mentioned in the scenarios are fictitious: details have been deliberately changed in order to protect identities and other confidential circumstances of my clients.

Please also note the advice I give in each scenario must not be relied upon by anyone reading my blog. You must always take your own legal advice as your circumstances may be different and English family law is continually changing.

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