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Thirty years ago this month…

Exactly 30 years ago this month my husband and I remortgaged our home, and used the money to buy a disused shop in Halton, east Leeds. It was at the end of a row of shops with an empty flat above. The property had formerly been a cobblers shop, and with some help from local tradesmen, we turned it into a solicitor’s office. Perhaps it didn’t look quite as you might imagine a solicitor’s office, but I thought it was very smart.

We painted the outside pillar box red to attract attention. We had a huge white sign saying Solicitors painted on the shop window. Inside at the back, we installed a tiny but functional kitchenette with an equally tiny cloakroom alongside. We partitioned the middle area into two cubicle offices, with a reception and waiting area at the front. I think we got some leaflets printed which we distributed in the area, announcing the arrival of a firm of local solicitors and then, with a secretary/receptionist, I opened the doors. I went out and about introducing myself to all the local businesses and banks, estate agents and so on. I was in my twenties, just married, and a solicitor with my own office. I was loving it!

I managed to attract clients from local people, businesses, and traders on the east side of Leeds, an area I had never visited before in my life. There was a dense mix of privately-owned houses and several council-owned housing estates. The shopping parade was busy and as a rough and ready “rule of thumb” I set myself a target of getting one case a day, reckoning that in that way I should be able to make a profit. I counted a new will or a house purchase as one case. Similarly a debt instruction or a letter in a neighbour dispute. I provided nearly every type of legal service that local people might want and paid off the second mortgage within 18 months. I didn’t deal with crime or child care cases as I didn’t like either of them. I referred those cases to my husband’s offices in central Leeds.

I worked very hard. The office grew and I needed to take on more staff. Converting the upstairs flat into more office space was the obvious answer but the Council wouldn’t grant planning consent. To me it was ridiculous. Of course, I wouldn’t take no for an answer and with the assistance of a barrister who I was friendly with, contested the decision. We both went to the hearing at the Civic Hall, where I ultimately managed to pull a rabbit out of the hat.

The issue was eventually narrowed down to concerns over additional parking. I suddenly remembered that round the side of our building was a grassy area. I had a copy of the deeds with me, got them out, examined them and proved to the Council that we owned the area, not the Council. I offered to convert the grassy area into parking space, and as a result we got our planning consent and expanded upstairs. I was able take over a converted bedroom as my office and so it was goodbye to the poky cubicle I had been working in downstairs. It was bliss. I even had a view of the street!

Eventually we had to move away, as it had become too small for us. The pillar box red outside gave way to a more corporate navy blue elsewhere.

My barrister friend moved on too. He is now His Hon Judge John Altman, the designated family judge forLondon.

My first little office will be remembered forever, and not just by me and my husband. It features on the magnificent Leeds Millennium Tapestry. It can be seen on the panel entitled “Pro Rege et Lege”. I had learned that the panel was being prepared to celebrate the City ofLeeds, and so I wrote to the organisers suggesting that high street lawyers should be recognised on the legal panel too. They readily agreed, so along with the prestigious office buildings housing the corporate grandees of Leeds, it is possible to see my first ever office too, with its converted shop front painted pillar box red!

Photo of Halton by Michael Taylor via Wikipedia under a Creative Commons licence 

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4 Comments

  1. DT on October 17, 2012 at 6:03 pm

    The girl did good!

    1. Marilyn Stowe on October 17, 2012 at 7:10 pm

      DT
      Many thanks. I was in two minds about this post, but 30 years is a long time and where has the time gone? I was telling my dad recently how amazed I feel walking to my office in Central London, the route takes me through Lincolns Inn, Chamcery Lane …I can’t quite believe it. That’s probably because you can take the girl out of Leeds but….! I’m sure you are the same. Roots are roots.
      Marilyn
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  2. DT on October 17, 2012 at 8:37 pm

    No, you shouldn’t be in two minds Marilyn; celebrate your successes and learn from your mistakes – that’s my motto.

    You should be proud of yourself and I bet your mum & dad are VERY proud too, and so they should be.

    You’ve made a big difference to a lot of lives.

    DT

  3. HMC on October 25, 2012 at 10:59 pm

    Very impressive!! Thank you for sharing this; it gives me great hope for the future.

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