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BBC Woman’s Hour: Civil partnerships are a stopgap

Earlier today I appeared on BBC Radio 4 show Woman’s Hour. I am always delighted to receive an invitation to appear on this iconic show. Women have been debating and discussing the finer points of their lives on this radio institution since 1946!

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The Day of the Triffids (from Solicitors Journal)

In recent months this column has chronicled the travails, opportunities and challenges faced by our profession in 2013 and beyond. In truth, the future faced by high street firms continues to give me cause for concern. Lack of confidence in the economy, an axe-happy government and 'Tesco Law' have

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ITV Daybreak: Adultery & the Internet

Earlier today I appeared on Daybreak, not once but twice! I was invited on at the beginning of the programme and again after the 8 ‘o’ clock news, to discuss a study showing that the rise of smartphones and social media has led to a surge in infidelity and fraud.

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Divorce & Splitting Up: free for five days!

My popular Kindle ebook Divorce & Splitting Up: Advice from A Top Divorce Lawyer is now free to download – until the end of this week!

Normally 99p, this special offer runs until the end of Friday (May 3).

Launched at the beginning of the year, Divorce & Splitting Up offers nearly 300 pages on

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The Iron Lady? Perspectives on Margaret Thatcher

The late Margaret Thatcher had a way with words and several of her finest bons mots really appeal to me. “Being powerful is like being a lady. If you have to tell people you are, you aren’t” and “If you want something said, ask a man. If you want it done, ask a woman” and so on. There are lots of

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Just another day at the office (from Solicitors Journal)

The Legal Ombudsman has produced a report showing that family law is the most complained about area of law in England and Wales. More than a fifth of the cases it deals with involve divorce and other family law-

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Thoughts in unexpected places!

It has been an unusual week! While we all shiver beneath a winter that seems especially reluctant to give way spring this year, just a few days ago a time capsule was buried beneath the grounds of the still-under-construction JW3 Jewish Community Centre on the

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Surge in ‘privatised’ divorces expected after landmark arbitration case

A “green light” has been given to divorce settlements by private arbitration after a recent ruling, according to a former Lord Chancellor.
Lord Falconer of Thoroton commented to The Times on a divorce settlement agreed by a couple privately under Jewish law

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Afternoon tea at Harlow Carr Gardens

Last year, in the summer, I joined my parents and sister (known to blog readers as Aunty Doo Doo) for tea at Bettys in Harlow Carr Gardens, Harrogate. It’s a very pretty place and before I could refuse, my Dad said “Have an egg sandwich with your tea, Marilyn” as he

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‘Divorce & Splitting Up’ featured in national newspaper

Today (February 12) my book Divorce & Splitting Up was featured in national tabloid The Sun. In the paper’s Captain Crunch feature, readers were informed that the book’s 99p selling price on the Kindle “could be a bargain as the average UK divorce costs

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ITV This Morning: Divorce Clinic

Earlier today, my latest Divorce Clinic on ITV This Morning fielded questions from viewers.

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ITV Daybreak: Have You Made a Will?

Earlier today I appeared on Daybreak, to talk about the importance of making a will.

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Marilyn Stowe: ‘Family courts more pragmatic’ (from the Financial Times)

The ex-wife of a wealthy oil executive is heading to the UK’s highest court to challenge a ruling that lawyers have said could help wealthy people who want to wriggle out of paying large divorce settlements to their former spouses.

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ITV This Morning: Divorce Clinic

Earlier today I appeared on ITV This Morning, for the programme’s latest Divorce Clinic.

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Get my new book, ‘Divorce & Splitting Up’, FREE!

My new divorce book is available in the Amazon Kindle store – and it’s FREE!

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Have we fallen out of love with marriage? (from Bella magazine)

Not so long ago, getting hitched was taken for granted and cohabiting without a marriage licence was seen as ‘living in sin’. These days social attitudes have changed, but getting married is so expensive that people are put off the idea.

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I am 30 and I don’t know if I can ever fall in love again

I receive many letters from people concerned about the future, having had disastrous relationships in the past. Below is a letter from a woman named Jenny who, at only 30, worried that she might never

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The Duxbury Tables

A Duxbury calculation refers to the method used to work out a lump sum that can be drawn by a partner as maintenance for the rest of their life. The idea behind a lump sum is that this can enable a divorcing couple to have a clean break.

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What’s the secret of a happy relationship?

Dear Marilyn,
What’s the secret of a happy relationship? I would really like to know, because my own marriage is filled with ups and downs. It isn’t good for us, and it isn’t fair on our children. I have considered

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How to prepare children for divorce – dos and don’ts

Below is an extract from my new book, ‘Divorce & Splitting Up: Advice from a Top Divorce Lawyer’, which is available to download from Amazon, free of charge. This section looks at how to prepare children for divorce and I have included some useful dos and don’ts.

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Christmas: a special day

Today is Christmas Day and because it's a special day I would like to add a link here to one of my favourite ever posts on this blog. It is called The Family and the Circle of Life and it means a great deal to me. I hope you enjoy reading it - or rereading it - as much as I enjoyed writing it.

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Ideas on a postcard, please!

Well, come to think of it, perhaps an email might be quicker!

Ideas for what? The ebook I am currently completing, that’s what!. This *free* book will be available to Amazon Kindle users by the end of this months. Aimed at all separating

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Marilyn Stowe’s new book: expert advice on all aspects of divorce, for just 99p!

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Divorce & Splitting Up by Marilyn Stowe is the essential how-to book for anyone who is getting divorced or splitting up from a partner. Read more >>

"A must buy that really opens your eyes to what is involved if you are considering or going through a divorce." - Amanda Brown

"This will answer your questions in a way that non-lawyers can understand." - Miss P.

"This really has helped me to see that there is light at the end of the tunnel and I will come out of it a stronger person." - J

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Marilyn Stowe on ITV Daybreak & ITV This Morning

Marilyn’s Thought For The Day

Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself.

- Harvey Fierstein

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UK Blawg Awards 2010

About Marilyn

Marilyn Stowe is the senior partner in Stowe Family Law, which has offices in Yorkshire, Cheshire and London. With more than 30 years’ experience handling divorce cases and family law proceedings she is regarded as one of the most formidable and sought after divorce lawyers in the UK. In 2012, Marilyn became one of the first solicitors to qualify as a family law arbitrator.

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All persons mentioned in the scenarios are fictitious: details have been deliberately changed in order to protect identities and other confidential circumstances of my clients. All advice and information on this blog including posts written by guest authors, is given only as a general guide to the operation of the law on the date of publication. Readers must place no reliance whatsoever on the content of this blog and must always obtain their own legal advice. Marilyn Stowe, Stowe Family Law LLP and guest authors accept no liability whatsoever arising as a result of reliance upon its content.

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Basic Budget Worksheet - PDF

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The Process of Getting Divorced - PDF

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