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Purim and the curious case of M v F & Others

This weekend marked the Jewish festival of Purim. It commemorates Queen Esther, who managed to save the lives of the Persian Jews who were to be massacred by the wicked noble Haman. By begging for their lives, the Queen put herself at great risk. The King, who didn’t know she was Jewish herself, was moved by her pleas. He ordered Haman to be executed and the Jews were saved. Purim is a festival …

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New York: behind the steel and glass

New York is buzzing. The recession is over, the streets are thronged with people, the tills in the shops are ringing and the restaurants are packed. When I was there last week, the city that never …

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A triumph of family: the inspiring story of a very 20th century portrait

I am in New York for a few days on a trip that is part business and part pleasure. And I have a feeling that despite the time difference all the emails flying between me and some of the lawyers in my …

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Divorced From Reality (from Solicitors Journal)

From my latest Solicitors Journal column “Family Business”, 22/02/2011. Divorced from reality Fresh from an Oxbridge eye-opener, Marilyn Stowe wonders how stuck in the past the future will be. It is one of the perks of our chosen field that no …

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On addressing the Oxford Union

Morris Room, Oxford Union It would be fair to say that the past week has been an eventful one – not least because on Thursday, I addressed the Oxford Union. I had been invited to debate before the …

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“Sweet is revenge, especially to women.”

Lord Byron, who wrote those famous words, discovered that a woman’s revenge can be lifelong. He became caught up in what is nowadays a recognised psychological and social model: The Drama …

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Why I couldn’t watch the Eastenders cot death episode

I am a lifelong soap devotee and, as regular readers will know, an erstwhile adviser to two of them (Coronation Street and The Archers). However I could watch only a few minutes of Eastenders’ controversial new storyline before switching off. At the time of writing there have been more than 8,000 complaints about this storyline, in which a newborn baby dies of a cot death. In her traumatised …

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“Divorce Day” and a New Year’s Resolution: make the most of what you have

New Year's Day 2011: my husband makes a miraculous recovery “How about a bottle of your Montagny Premiere Cru?” asked my husband in his best courtroom voice. We were having lunch in Scott’s Restaurant in London on New Year’s Day. It’s a smart restaurant just off Park Lane and a perfect place in which to splash out and toast the New Year. Or should I say, it’s a perfect place …

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“Be happy”: the mantra we should all follow

In my work I often come across people who are ready to blame anything and everyone for their own failures, faults and unhappiness. They walk around under a cloud and seriously wonder why positive …

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Family lawyers are romantics too!

A comment on my recent post concerning William and Kate’s engagement described me as a “bit of a romantic at heart”. That set me thinking and I thought I’d try to explain why in this …

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Super-injunctions: Howard Donald chances his luck as the law evolves

If you are wondering who Howard Donald is and why he is so lucky, then let me explain… Howard Donald is a member of Take That, one of the most successful boy bands ever. The group was formed …

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Marriage in later life: what are the pitfalls?

I recently listened to a morning radio programme on which three counsellors gave advice to a young girl who had written in to the show. Her father had been widowed for ten years and had met another …

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Love, illness and divorce: who can say where the road goes?

There is a fascinating ITV programme that airs late on a Monday night called Surgery School. It follows real-life junior doctors who are training to be surgeons and previously the only impact it had …

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A beacon of hope: what the Chilean miners teach us about ourselves

As always the week of Jewish New Year culminates with Yom Kippur. And the Day of Atonement is one of the few times for reflection in my busy life. It is the week of the year when I make myself stop, take stock and think. No-one could describe me as a religiously observant person, but despite that there is something about this holy week that always makes me pause for thought. This week of the …

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Marilyn Stowe is the senior partner in Stowe Family Law, which has offices in Yorkshire, Cheshire and London. With more than 25 years’ experience handling divorce cases and family law proceedings she is regarded as one of the most formidable and sought after divorce lawyers in the UK.

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I write for the benefit of those who are experiencing family breakdown and for fellow family law professionals. Please note that all persons mentioned in the scenarios are fictitious: details have been deliberately changed in order to protect identities and other confidential circumstances of my clients.

Please also note the advice I give in each scenario must not be relied upon by anyone reading my blog. You must always take your own legal advice as your circumstances may be different and English family law is continually changing.

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