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“Conflicting out”: when can solicitors be prevented from acting?

What are the circumstances in which a firm of solicitors may be restrained from acting for a client in a family law case? Following my post earlier this week, I have decided to take a closer look at this question. After all, the circumstances in which an application may be made to debar a particular firm are not set in stone and there isn’t a great deal of jurisprudence on the subject. Marco …

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Divorce solicitors: when is the best time to seek second opinions?

After a wonderful holiday in Israel, it was a pleasure to return to work and start afresh. Then, as I read through the emails that had been sent by blog readers, I noticed one recurring theme. It is …

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About to email your divorce lawyer? Read this before you press “send”.

One of my jobs at Stowe Family Law is to carry out file reviews. Every month I pore over each file’s contents, read the correspondence, look at the documents and think long and hard about the …

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Delaying the Decree Absolute: another look at Miller Smith v Miller Smith

If one party wants the divorce to be finalised but the other does not, and the parties’ finances have not been resolved, may the decree absolute be delayed? Let’s begin with the basics. The divorce process in England is conducted in three …

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The David and Goliath of Divorce

I’m sitting writing this post, looking down the Red Sea’s Gulf of Aqaba (left), with the sun setting on the mountains. I am in Eilat, Israel, for my Passover break and I can’t pretend it’s …

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Silver Divorce: until divorce do us part?

I have written on more than one occasion about “Silver Divorce”:  the rise of divorce amongst couples in their 50s and 60s. For this group, the stigma of divorce has more or less gone. People …

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Should the ancillary relief system be revised?

A partnership is broadly defined as members of a common business venture. I like that description, with its emphasis on “business”. Ideally, the client and the family lawyer work together through the legal process until it reaches its natural conclusion. Our relationship throughout is strictly commercial, with input from each partner. Our contributions are naturally different, but more or …

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Divorce questions and answers on GMTV

What would you like to know about divorce? Lots of first-time visitors to this blog arrive here after typing their questions about divorce and family law directly into Google and other search engines. Other readers submit enquiries to the comments section, or contact me directly. Tomorrow (Wednesday 6 January) I will be appearing on the GMTV with Lorraine programme, which begins at 8:35 am, to …

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Ruskin – the Victorian genius who still fascinates family lawyers

This is the view of the River Lune from the cemetery in Kirby Lonsdale, Cumbria, North West England. The great art critic and social thinker John Ruskin described the scene as “one of the finest …

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Divorce with dignity is the way forward

“Our society in England and Wales now urgently demands a second attempt by Parliament, better than in the ill-fated Part II of the Act of 1996, to reform the five ancient bases of divorce; …

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Why get married? UK divorce statistics and the “11-year itch” – by guest blogger Julian Hawkhead

The latest UK divorce statistics show that a marriage ending in divorce has, on average, lasted 11.7 years. This has given rise to a new term: the “11-year itch”. So why get married? Because it is still seen as the right thing to do? Because it …

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Divorce and women: which way does the wind blow?

From the comment pages of the Yorkshire Post, 23/10/2009. Divorced from reality in the 21st century By Marilyn Stowe WE should all be raising glasses this week to celebrate the 40th anniversary of …

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Amicable divorce: fact or fiction?

I was interviewed for a feature in The Mail on Sunday’s YOU magazine, which focused upon “amicable” divorces that descend into bitter battles. I would like to emphasise that not every spouse …

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On Beauty and Rejection

I left Chicago with a stack of magazines for the eight-hour flight back to London. The glossy pages were filled with images of smiling women with smooth skins and flawless complexions. Do these faces have their place in everyday reality? Surely I cannot be the Western world’s only woman over 30 who has succumbed to gravity and resisted the lure of Restylane, Botox and other cosmetic …

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Marilyn Stowe is the senior partner in Stowe Family Law, which has offices in Yorkshire, Cheshire and London. With more than 25 years’ experience handling divorce cases and family law proceedings she is regarded as one of the most formidable and sought after divorce lawyers in the UK.

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I write for the benefit of those who are experiencing family breakdown and for fellow family law professionals. Please note that all persons mentioned in the scenarios are fictitious: details have been deliberately changed in order to protect identities and other confidential circumstances of my clients.

Please also note the advice I give in each scenario must not be relied upon by anyone reading my blog. You must always take your own legal advice as your circumstances may be different and English family law is continually changing.

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