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Coping with divorce, part two. Fight your demons.

In the last post about coping with divorce, I wrote about how distressing the divorce process can be and how, to emerge whole at the other side, it is vitally important to do whatever it takes to keep your mind in shape. This post is a cautionary one, about what can happen if you give in to those demons lurking in your head. I have previously written about the dirty divorce tricks born of the …

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Cafcass & Private Children Law Proceedings – by guest blogger Jennifer Hollyer

Cafcass, which stands for Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service, was coined by the Criminal Justice and Court Services Act in April 2001. A public body, Cafcass looks after the …

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International divorce and child abduction – by guest blogger Andrea Essen

Unless both parents consent to a child’s relocation from one country to another, such a move can be considered international child abduction.  But when a relationship ends, it is tempting to …

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Divorce and its Effects on Children

Dirk Lindner’s edgy portrait of Jean-Christophe Novelli and Novelli’s daughter Christina caught my eye as I was scanning The Sunday Times Magazine yesterday. I began to read the interview and I was soon hooked. It was a cracking piece, …

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Divorce and Grandparents’ Rights

The Mature Times asked me to write about divorce and grandparents’ rights. My article also offers advice to grandparents who are caught up in such a situation and are concerned that they may …

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Why I am horrified by the Centre for Social Justice’s proposals

Every Family Matters, a report prepared for the Conservative Party by Iain Duncan Smith’s ‘Centre for Social Justice’ think tank, received a good deal of press attention at the …

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Speaking Out On Family Breakdown: Bravo, Mr Justice Coleridge!

Earlier this week Sir Paul Coleridge, who sits as a High Court judge in Central London, spoke out about family breakdown. His speech has been widely published: I read about it in the Daily Mail and The Daily Telegraph. He talked about his sadness and frustration at the volume of family breakdowns, with lawyers warning that the family courts are “overstretched to the point of …

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Parents: Keep Doing Your Best!

Many of my clients place their children's needs before their own. But I have seen many people who, when they are divorcing, struggle to get past their own needs

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When only the High Court will do

Hindsight is a wonderful thing My last post concerned a court case which turned into a disaster. My colleagues in our Children’s Department have told me that in these complex cases, the court …

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When being too motherly can land you in jail

Children are far stronger than we give them credit for Yesterday, I read an article in the Sunday Times that ruined my otherwise very pleasant day. The piece by Daniel Foggo concerned a mother who …

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Mesher Orders and Martin Orders: What You Need To Know

Wives and mothers usually wish to remain in the marital home – but it isn’t always a good idea to postpone a sale. A Mesher order is a court order that postpones the sale of the marital home and gives a chargeback to a husband …

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The CSA: Rachel Baul Answers More of Your Questions

Guest Blogger and Solicitor Rachel Baul joined Stowe Family Law in 2004, and is a member of the Law Society’s Family Law Panel. She specialises in all areas of family law and ancillary relief, …

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Christmas and Divorce: What Women Want

Earlier this month I recorded a programme for BBC Radio 4′s More or Less programme about the so-called ‘Divorce D-Day’:  the first Monday back to work in January, when divorce …

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Transnational Pro Bono work

Our transnational work continues to grow- this week on consecutive days, our solicitors, Angela Stephenson and Frank Arndt successfully attended court in London in two separate jurisdiction cases. The whereabouts (or jurisdiction) of a divorce can often impact on the financial settlement between the divorcing couples because differing laws will be applied in different countries. Our firm’s …

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Marilyn Stowe is the senior partner in Stowe Family Law, which has offices in Yorkshire, Cheshire and London. With more than 25 years’ experience handling divorce cases and family law proceedings she is regarded as one of the most formidable and sought after divorce lawyers in the UK.

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Note

I write for the benefit of those who are experiencing family breakdown and for fellow family law professionals. Please note that all persons mentioned in the scenarios are fictitious: details have been deliberately changed in order to protect identities and other confidential circumstances of my clients.

Please also note the advice I give in each scenario must not be relied upon by anyone reading my blog. You must always take your own legal advice as your circumstances may be different and English family law is continually changing.

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