Comments on: Dirty Divorce Tricks – Part 1

By: Alixandrea

Alixandrea — Mon, 14 Jun 2010 14:24:45 +0000

Ah, point 6… In my case, my husband sank the boat that was our marital hoome, and on which we still have outstanding joint finance. Well done idiot! Now he’s lost his job and is refusing to pay off any more of the loan, despite the fact that I let him stay on the boat when I left, didn’t expect to have any of the money I’d already paid towards it refunded to me, and currently cannot afford to take on the loan by myself now even if I was willing to, due to having my own life to live and pay for now…

Financial advisers tomorrow. We’ll see what advice they have for me…

By: Marilyn Stowe

Marilyn Stowe — Wed, 09 Jun 2010 14:07:11 +0000

Yes you can obtain financial compensation for malicious damage caused by the other spouse. But that compensation doesnt physically replace the item that has been damaged or destroyed. The wife who destroyed the Steinway knew she would irreperably and deeply hurt her pianist husband. However, when he discovered what had happened, he declined to ask for financial compensation from her. He chose to let it go.
Interesting isnt it?

By: Divorce Techniques

Divorce Techniques — Tue, 08 Jun 2010 12:09:10 +0000

These are pretty underhanded by sound techniques, I must say. However, I do question the “destruction of household’s most valuable content.” Can’t your particular actions of destruction against his belongings be used against you during your divorce trial? It seems like actually destroying his or her prized possessions may prove counter-active in the long run. Or is there something that I’m not seeing about this point?

By: Mark

Mark — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 09:57:54 +0000

The first thing i did when divorce was looming was make a new Will. I don’t think i can stress the importance of this enough. Making a Will afresh is by no means a dirty trick i don’t think some may think otherwise.

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By: Relationship Problems

Relationship Problems — Thu, 27 Aug 2009 23:01:06 +0000

Many of the ‘tricks’ you mention may seem dirty, but unfortunately, when you’re going through the emotional rollercoaster of divorce, human emotions don’t seem to pay any attention to what is right or wrong.

Pre-meditated divorce tricks are another matter altogether. I guess it just goes to show you never truly know your loving partner as well as you think you do.

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By: Joan Morton

Joan Morton — Tue, 03 Jun 2008 17:59:38 +0000

I can only imagine that Marilyn you haven’t had this happen to you to imagine that bugging your husband is extreme. The need for the truth and closure on this chapter of life (25 years) can only be understood by a sufferer. I bugged my friends car as she was the new woman, it helped me enormously just to know for sure. Now I can move on.

By: M Haystead

M Haystead — Mon, 19 May 2008 13:03:01 +0000

in a divorce between two people together for 12 years and married for 10, aged 40 and 56 with no children involved, is the setlement of finance etc. a 50-50 split even though one party has contributed more by selling their house to buy one in joint names.

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